Friday, May 11, 2012

Mother's Day is hard when your child is deceased...tap into the memories

Mother's day is fast approaching and with it an emptiness of knowing our child is gone.  Each year my two sons Brandon and Jason would cook a meal for me.  They did everything from setting the table to washing the dishes.  Mother's Day 2010 was the last one with my Jay; he made some concoction that looked like "fish scrambled eggs".  Brandon leaned over and said "Mom this is horrible".  I said "I know eat it anyway".  This memory will forever bring joy to my heart.


 Cards were never Jay's thing; especially a "mushy" one.  Mother's Day cards were always goofy; except for this one that he gave me May 2010.  It is a treasured last gift from my Jay.


"Perhaps strength doesn't reside in having never been broken, but in the courage required to grow strong in the broken places."   Author Unknown

3 comments:

  1. That is absolutely beautiful ..and I can picture the whole situation in my mind...even with a hugh lump in my throat.

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  2. Heard this on the CBS Morning Show. "You never get over it...you just get through it"

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